Utilising Online Dating Services For Adding Your Soul mate to Your Rhythm of Life

Last year, I decided I want to find my soulmate online. I had avoided taking this drastic measure for several years but it seemed like everyone I know, including friends and co-workers, are signing on, creating profiles, and finding love online.  If they can do it, why can’t I?

Looking to Find the Right Notes

Like the notes on a sheet of music, life is rhytmic.  Even though the people may come and go, you are eager to at some point, to hear the whole concerto.  I knew that when I could find that special someone, the missing notes in my life would be found.  An enduring addition can happen to your life’s rhythm when you have a soulmate.

Since I was new to the world of internet dating, in my initial searches for a soulmate, I was wary of revealing too much information about myself. I was unsure of how much to reveal and what would catch the attention of people. I started searching for success stories of other users to find the answers to these problems. The material that came up through the search was very inspiring.

I found out that out there, I wasn’t the only apprehensive first-timer. Cynderella interacted with her current husband for the first time in a chat room. Being from a small town in a rural area, she did not have many dating options. Her friends suggested that like me, she should try internet dating.

Just one week later, Cynderella met MJ. After he sent her an emoticon expressing his interest in her she went on and took a look at the profile of himself that he’d put up on the dating site. What she saw intrigued her and she responded. This in turn led to a month filled with IMs and emails flying back and forth between them.  At last, the decided to meet offline and take the relationship to a different level.

MJ lived in another state so Cynderella flew to meet him . Even while stepping off the plane she grew sure that she had finally found her perfect match. ”It was amazing, the old nervous Nelly me was left behind and I had become a self-confident woman who would fly across the country to meet a man. Online dating made me feel more powerful and capable of actually controlling my own life. I was fortunate enough to find my soul mate and we now live together happily….and of course, in the same state” says Cynderella.  Though there were no glass slippers, the music was loud and clear.

Surprises That Make You Happy!

I came across Mark’s story when I was continuing the search for my soulmate. Mark first met H2O when still in college. His friends and he were surfing the internet when a banner for an online dating site popped up. They decided to explore the site as a joke.

That same night Mark’s friends made a bet with him. The bet was that if Mark could get a date from the online site within a month, they’d wash his athletic gear for the next one year. Mark agreed to the bet.

He signed up and created his profile and chatted with women, being honest with them the whole time and explaining the real reason for his being there, most women found this very offending.

The end of the month was drawing near and Mark assumed he had lost the bet. Not only would he be washing his gear for the year to ocme but that of all his friends as well.

Two days before the d-day, Mark found a profile that caught his interest. He emailed, she responded, and they chatted for the entire night. H2O lived in a nearby town and Mark set up a date to meet her at a local movie theater. The bet didn’t offend her. “Mark says “She has a great sense of humour”. “Barely 6 months into dating each other we were sure we wanted to spend the rest of our lives together. We are now engaged and plan to get married in 2010.”

Enjoying the Music

While trying to find true love I was led to great success stories, but it also showed me the problems you can face if you are not careful. Mad4You met a wonderful man who matched all of her criteria. “I could not believe we had so many interests in common.” Mad4You says she was very attracted after just a few chats. However, a problem that she did not expect was to arise. A person who says they are divorced from a previous spouse may not be telling the whole truth. He may married now.!”

I was also surprised at the number of single parents looking for love online. Many singles say that single parents are often great matches. If you’re finding true love though, just make sure your kids are compatible too!

It was on an internet dating site that Yellowtutu met the man of her dreams. She was a single mom with 3 teens. Digthis, whom she connected to, had 2 sons from a previous marriage. She informed her children about him after having communicated with him for many months.

On the first date Yellowtutu’s eldest daughter fell head over heels for Digthis’s younger son. The attraction was mutual and they met secretly for over a year without letting their parents know. The kids told their story when Yellowtutu and Digthis decided that they’re relationship wasn’t working out.

“Despite not working out for him and me, we still believe that the relationship was entirely worth it all. My daughter found her perfect match and they’ve been happily married for more than 3 years and also given us the 2 most beautiful grandchildren ever” says Yellowtutu.  It hit me then that anything can happen when you go online searching for your soulmate.

…yes life is filled with rhythm.  When you find your soul mate or if I do, we must listen closely.  The music will swell with the fullness of notes.