July 27, 2009
Fellas, Avoid The Friend Zone When Meeting Women!
Don’t get trapped into the friend zone! Here’s one way to be sure you are not a candidate for ‘just a friend’ status. You have to have some sort of physical contact or touching when talking to a girl. By having some physical contact between the two of you you are establishing a sense of mutual tactility with each other. So how do you project this physical touching and contact technique without looking like a creeper? Here are some things to keep in mind. Use physical contact and touching to help you when you want to know how to approach a girl.
There are men who just go for it. This is the wrong approach. That way is going to get you no where and is counter-productive.
Being overly touchy can ruin your chances of meeting new women because they may not even give you a chance to show how nice of a guy you are if you make them feel uncomfortable from the get go.
The other extreme is that you are too timid to act and end up not showing any touchy or physical contact. This is not a preferable approach either as it shows you don’t have the confidence to show your attraction to her. There must be some sort of middle ground, some balance. To find out more on discovering that balance check out Savoy’s Magic Bullets review.
Let’s figure out how you can gain the balance between not coming off as creepy but yet still show that you are interested in her.
When you first introduce yourself, form a bond quickly by shaking her hand while introducing yourself.
One area in particular is a good start for physical contact. Talking and touching her on the outside of her arm shows that you are a personable person. Do so however, in a smooth manner.
The key here is to build a rapport with a woman. You want to create this so you can keep a sexual attraction between the two of you. This allows for a sexual attraction to grow between the both of you. Which is vital.
The best approach is to be stealthy when maintaining physical contact with a girl. For example, if she wants to go to the bathroom, direct her and help her get through the crowd by making sure shes holding on to your hand or your shoulders. This allows her to get to where she needs to go and you get the physical contact you want. If she doesn’t realize you are trying to touch her you are doing a great job.
Giving a hug when closing out your conversation is a great way to leave a good lasting impression.
It is worth your while to build this bond and rapport with a woman as she’ll remember you more and will want to see you again sooner than later! Learn this technique and in no time you’ll be double your dating.
