March 6, 2009
Flirting Strategies To Pick Up Women
Hey, Dean Cortez here with some more Tactical tips on boosting your dating game.
When you think about striking up a conversation with a girl, how do you picture it going in your mind?
If you’re like 90% of guys, you think conversation is about getting to know her, having her get to know you, and just being casual and laidback.
Just go with the flow, right?
Well, NOT if you want to get results.
If you want to GUARANTEE that you get her phone number and meet her again very soon … or, bring her home TONIGHT (if the situation allows for it) … you’ve got to get STRATEGIC with the way you converse with women.
Conversation is a TOOL that is going to get you where you want to go. But in order to use this tool correctly, you’ve got to learn how to apply it and MASTER it.
This means no more awkward silences, while you wonder what to say next … or feeling phony because you’re relying on some stupid “pickup routine” you learned from some so called guru (who probably has trouble getting laid himself).
As a Mack, you’re going to CONTROL the conversation and guide it along.
You’re not just talking aimlessly, going with the flow, chatting about whatever topic she brings up.
There is going to be a definite PURPOSE to every conversation you initiate with a woman, and a RESULT you are steering it towards.
See, when a Mack converses with a woman, it SEEMS like a normal conversation … on the surface.
The woman doesn’t suspect anything out of the ordinary: he just seems like a cool guy who has interesting things to say.
Underneath the surface, however, he is following a plan.
He is building a RAPID CONNECTION with her.
He makes her feel a level of COMFORT with him that the average guy couldn’t create, even after spending hours with her!
I absolutely believe in this material. When I meet a girl and converse for ten minutes with her, I create a sense of COMFORT and FAMILIARITY that most guys would never get after spending two hours on a date with her.
One of my students, Greg, has gotten really good at this. If you were to observe Greg at a bar, talking to a girl, you would see them laughing, touching each other, having a great time…like a couple that has been together for a while.
But usually, this is a girl that Greg met only MINUTES ago!
That’s the magic of M.A.C.K. Tactics. You cut through all the crap, all the awkwardness and phoniness, and you create a REAL connection. Learning how to meet single girls never felt so easy.
You’re also going to learn how to slip through the BARRIERS that women put up. This is the natural “female defense mechanism” that they use to screen out all the lame guys.
In the M.A.C.K. Tactics book we go into a lot of detail about this. In this program you’ll learn every step of the process — from the opening approach, to building the bond, and closing the deal.”
For now, let’s run down a few key pointers:
Let her talk and share. Women really appreciate a guy who listens and gives thoughtful responses. As she shares personal details about herself, the connection between you grows. (The bottom line is, you need to know how to ask her the right questions. The way you phrase your words is so important.)
Cut through the small talk and take it to a deeper level. Don’t get into a long discussion about jobs. Mention the things you are most passionate about, and get her to share hers.
(Get her to reveal a goal or a dream of hers, and be encouraging and supportive, and you’re really in the door … )
If you’re passionate about your work, that’s great. But don’t dwell on the present. Talk about future possibilities.
And remember, if you’re not yet where you want to be, in terms of money and success, you can generate strong attraction from women if you show AMBITION and PASSION.
The M.A.C.K. Tactics book has an amazing section on this … if you’re ready to jump in and start learning, click here:
You see, an ambitious, passionate guy makes her feel, “this guy’s life is on an exciting, positive track. It would be cool to be a part of it.”
Also, maintain a sense of mystery. During the initial conversation, it’s best to leave questions about yourself unanswered. Stimulate her curiosity.
Here are some examples…
Which sounds better?
“I work as a waiter at a restaurant.”
Or…
“I work in the restaurant industry. Right now I’m learning all I can about the business, because a few years from now I plan on opening my own place. What about you…I get the
sense you’re an ambitious person, is there a goal you’re working towards right now?”
(Here, you demonstrated ambition and passion, then you turned the spotlight back onto her.)
Which sounds better?
“I’m between jobs right now…”
Or…
"I'm looking into some different business opportunities right now, I always like to stay busy. What about you, how do you spend your days when you’re not working?”
Or, you might have achieved some success in your career. In this case, don’t boast about it or go into detail.
Just ALLUDE to the fact that you’re a sharp, successful guy with even bigger things on the horizon.
“Let’s just say I’m good at what I do and I’m very well compensated. The hours are long, but I love it… and right now, I’m learning so much that I want to start my own business. Have you ever thought about starting your own business?”
Any negative can be spun into a positive, and any positive can be phrased so that it BUILDS YOU UP in her eyes.
If you’re ready to stop “playing the game” the way women want us to, you’ve got to check out the M.A.C.K. Tactics system and the FREE bonus products it comes with, including our 2-hour “TRAINING DAY” video series!
Click here to see all of it:
Your Wingman,
Dean Cortez
