5 Easy Steps in the Art of Learning How to Be Irresistible to Men

When dealing with men and relationships, we have to account for the fact that generalizing too much can mislead us in understanding what they seek in a woman and what they find attractive. But there are some common tendencies that can absolutely give you clues for understanding the secrets of being irresistible to men.

All over the world and throughout history, women have been asking similar questions: Why is it so hard for men to commit? What makes a man fall for you? What are the real causes behind males not expressing their feelings? What is the best way to seduce a man?

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These may be hard questions, but sharing some pointers on how to be irresistible to men, will hopefully make the other issues easier to explore.

• Many people will advise otherwise, but in my opinion it’s ok to show your interest in him at the beginning.

The days when women feigned indifference to seduce a man are gone in my opinion. Showing interest will set you off on the right foot, because it’s a sign of maturity and self-assurance. But don’t be too obvious in showing interest; better to be delicate: compliment him about something at the beginning of the date, or laugh with him at a joke.

• The art of making a guy fall in love with you consists in combining your showing interest with my second tip: don’t give everything away, keep the mystery alive. The key is not to show all your cards. Not unlike dressing sexily, you don’t want to show too much—just enough to make him want more.

This interplay between showing genuine interest and yet, keeping things mysterious, is one of the techniques taught by the best relationship authors. One example is Mirabelle Summers’ “Get a Guy Guide“.

My next piece of advice is related to something we do automatically, but that we can maximize by consciously focusing on it:

• Utilize your body language to express yourself, using your movements, your voice, your smile.

And again, our suggestion of being subtle applies here as well, so make sure to not overdo it.

Many women (as well as men) date as if they had to fill an emotional gap in their lives. Most likely, this will inform their actions with fear and worry. Therefore,

• Avoid being too clingy, or too needy. Desperation is not sexy.

This may be sort of obvious, but not everyone follows it. Insisting will cause resisting on his part.

And here’s the tip that encompasses all the others:

• Be confident. To learn how to be irresistible to the opposite gender, you first have to learn how to be irresistible to yourself.

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Feel good about yourself for him to feel good about you. At the beginning of any relationship with a man, act as if you’re already complete. You can hope for a man to enrich your life, but you have to cultivate the feeling that your life is already rich to begin with. This attitude of self-reliance will position you best to understand men and relationships, and to learn to become more attractive to them.