June 30, 2009

Attracting Women - the Secrets

Finding the secrets to attracting a woman may be easier than you think. Ask one! Moreover, you might want to ask a woman that somewhat resembles the type of women you want to attract. To make it a little easier on you, I will give you a few attracting women secrets based on certain types of women so that you can get off to a good start.

First and foremost, one of the secrets to appealing to women isn’t so secret at all. It starts with how you look; your appearance. You really don’t need to be as attractive as most celebrities, but you need to keep up with your hygience - daily showers, your hair and general grooming. And here is one that is non-intuitive to most men - your shoes. Women pay a lot of attention to shoes. Get some nice ones. Chances are that you are not an athlete either, so get on an exercise program, lose some weight and get in shape. In order to attract women, you simply need to take care of yourself on all levels; it shows.

First up are the athletic types. If you really want to attract these, then you need to do the same. Sweat is not necessarily a turn off. Being able to get out there and have some fun is a very attractive quality, especially if you are looking buff these days with your exercise plan in place. Some women will be attracted to a little bit of friendly competitiveness. Others want to know that you’re also athletic and enjoy taking care of yourself. Mostly, they’re looking for a man that knows how to have fun and can laugh at himself.

On the other hand, sports and working out may not be your thing and you are more attracted to the brainy types. The first rule here is not feel threatened by their intelligence (or at least show it). You of course, need to be reflect this quality as well. They want to know that you are also intelligent or at least strive to be.

Are you looking for a woman who is fun, adventurous, and is even willing to play video games with gusto? This may be the easiest yet - be fun yourself and they’ll notice. If you are looking good, having fun, smiling a lot, and know how to dish out compliments and limit your sarcasm, you are definitely on your way to empowering yourself to attract a woman of your dreams. Check out most other online dating guides - they will verify this sage advice.

The power-lunch type woman is a little tougher. This is the take-control type, organized, driven with an eye for success. Being in shape, smelling good (don’t overload on the cologne) and dressing sharp is the way to go. Support this type of woman, congratulate her when appropriate and don’t be threatened by her success. Yes, success-driven women are tough to attract, because they may be more interested in success than romance. But they’re still human and not immune to romantic overtures. Be sophisticated in courting the career woman.

Overall, the top ’secrets’ to picking up women are: looking good, being happy yourself and being genuinely interested in her. Women aren’t looking for men they have to take care of. Come to the table with something to offer or at least be working on them, and women will respond.

Good luck!

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