Is Internet Dating Not Happening For You? Try This…

Have you ever noticed that most Internet profiles start with “I am” or “I want?” And although you’re the one looking for true love, your profile shouldn’t be only about you.

“Dating Online is not about you, it’s about the other person you’re wanting to attract to you. This is also known as Compound Interest. For a change try to ‘Pay it Forward’ and watch what happens,” Chaszey says.

“Paying WHAT forward??” you may ask.

Let’s give this some thought. The Online Dating industry takes in over $2 billion dollars per year, with more than 10 million daters looking for true love online. With that many people online looking for true love just like you are, you will most likely spend your time rejecting others and getting rejected yourself. Another way of saying this is once you have made your outstanding profile public, what’s left to do is really weeding through the dozens or even hundreds of men or women that come towards you.

Until your true love has found you, try earning some karma browny points by responding to those you’re not interested in with grace. Because that most likely what you’ll spend most of your time with when you embark on the wild world of Online Dating.

Chaszey says: “Whatever we give out comes back to us tenfold. What people forget is that while people should earn our trust, no one should have to earn our respect and our kindness. Each and every person deserves these free gifts from us, for the simple fact that we are fellow humans living on the same planet, enjoying the same sunlight and walking fairly similar journeys called life. And let’s recognize that everyone is looking for the exact same thing: Unconditional Love.”

You have to show willingness and devote some time to learn how to send graceful rejection e-mails to your potential suiters. They should show effort, be filled with grace and let the other person feel your kindness. “Don’t ever forget that the other person has feelings too and that the kindness of your words may just heal a broken heart. Mostly your tender e-mail will bring you karma points that will multiply through the concept of compound interest, and life will take on a whole new meaning for you. Tough to explain, but so worth the effort.”

Karma points always add or subtract from our character, and we want to create a stronger and kinder new you, that will attract the person you deserve.

So next time you want to hit that preset button sending a “no thanks” message, think about taking the time to read the person’s profile and sending them a reply filled with kindness, because they really deserve it.

Chaszey Sandhriel is Your Online Dating Coach. She can help you get the results you deserve. Visit her website to download free tips and participate in free tele-seminars, www.YourOnlineDatingCoach.com, or you can reach her at 415.419.7952.